385 -Why Your Guest Outreach Is Getting Ignored

You finally land the perfect guest for your show… only to be met with silence. No reply. No booking. Nothing. Today’s episode digs into why your outreach might be falling flat and what you can do differently to actually get a “yes.” The crew reacts to a viral clip from Dare to Self-Care about guesting and ghosting and whether small podcasters really do ask too much from potential guests. We discuss the balance of power between hosts and guests, how to set fair expectations, and why curating a great guest experience matters more than fancy outreach. Sometimes, the best pitch isn’t about convincing, it’s about connecting.
Episode Highlights:
[02:39] Podcasting News: WTF with Marc Maron
[06:48] Discussion on Podcasting Burnout
[13:49] Challenges in Podcasting: Marketing and Editing
[17:33] Guest Outreach: Tips and Tricks
[26:18] The Importance of Pre-Interviews
[29:52] The Favor Exchange Debate
[35:02] Creating a Positive Guest Experience
[42:18] Streamlining Guest Collaboration and Promotion
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Good morning, podcasting morning
chat.
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Today is Thursday, October 9th,
2025.
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And today it's Thursday, which
means we're playing a clip from
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another podcaster.
This one's all about why your
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guest outreach might be getting
ignored.
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We'll break it down, share our
take and add our own tips too.
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And now give us about 30 seconds
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Thanks for being here.
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Good morning again podcasting
Morning Chat.
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I am your host Mark Ronick and
currently on stage with me.
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We have Nick Naul back, producer
Ashley Feller, Dr. Faye and Sid
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Meadows, and I'm sure we're
gonna hear and see more of the
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cast and crew here in just a
moment.
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And as I said, it is the here's
the unofficial name.
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It is Clip Thursday.
I don't know it.
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It seems to work for me, the
name.
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But at the same time, it seems
very literal.
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And I don't want to get too
clever either.
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So I'm just resting here for a
moment on that name.
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We'll see if it sticks or not.
Do you want to say something,
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Dr. Well, I'm a sucker for
alliteration, so I'm trying to
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come up with something that
begins with a TH.
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Right.
You know, sip Thursday.
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How's that?
So we do have actually 2 clips
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but we'll see how long we go
with this first clip.
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But if we have extra time we'll
play another clip as well.
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And we have some other stuff to
get to 1st yesterday.
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As some of you know, Wednesdays
we do news and comment.
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We talk about all the headlines
around the world of podcasting
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and content creation, and there
was one story we did not get to,
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and Dr. brought it up to me this
morning.
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And I think I think it's
important to at least start the
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show talking about this, 'cause
this is news in the world of
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podcasting and it deserves a
little attention.
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Go ahead, dear.
Yeah.
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So we all knew it was coming,
but now it's really happening.
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WTF with Marc Maron launched
back in 2009 and became one of
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the most influential podcasts in
modern history.
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It was known for its raw,
emotional, honest interviews and
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no holds barred storytelling.
The show helped redefine
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podcasting as a medium for
vulnerability, cultural
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commentary, and deep human
connection.
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Over 16 years and 1600 episodes.
WTF featured guests ranging from
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Barack Obama to Robin Williams,
blending comedy, philosophy and
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pain into unforgettable
conversations.
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So he hosted these episodes from
his garage, or as he calls it,
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the Cat Ranch.
Marc Maron made the intimate
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feel iconic.
The show ends this coming
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Monday.
I guess a little emotional.
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I'm sorry, I don't mean to do
that.
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Wow.
The show ends this coming Monday
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not as a burnout casualty, but
as a conscious, creative
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decision to finish on his own
terms one more time.
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OK, It's Legacy is not just for
conversations.
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It's the invitation to tell the
truth.
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Go deep and let the mic hear
your heartbeat.
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That was tough.
Wow, sorry, I didn't mean to get
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now.
Dr. Are you a big fan?
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Let's play with this for a
second.
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Why so emotional?
I'm not saying it to tease, I'm
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genuinely curious how why you
think it made you emotional?
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He's so iconic and when I think
of him, you know, he's done a
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lot of acting gigs in the past
several years.
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So I am a fan of whenever I see
him, his name on something, you
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know, on Netflix or any other
platform, I will watch.
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But I don't, I have to.
I have to see who's on in order
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for me to really catch his
podcast.
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It's not something I normally
would tune into, but when I have
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tuned into it, he does have the
ability to get people talking
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and saying stuff that they
wouldn't normally say on a show,
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quote UN quote show because of
this whole intimate thing that
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he set up.
Yeah, as far as we're concerned
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in this industry, he is a
legend.
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And so I do understand the
emotion behind it and what he's
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done with not just the industry,
but specifically with his
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podcast.
Like you're pointing out, there
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is something really special
about it for a lot of people.
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And it really he found a way to
really make these interviews
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that he did very personal.
I get the emotion.
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And This is why I think it's
important to acknowledge him
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stepping down, walking away.
A lot of us can learn a thing or
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two about interviewing if we
listen to him.
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And it doesn't matter, in my
opinion, whether he's talking to
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big names and celebrities or,
you know, Joe Schmo down the
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street.
He finds a way to bring out the
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best interviews in people.
And I think if we study that, I
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think we can learn a few things
about how to do it better.
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Right.
And the copy did say that, you
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know, it's it's not a commentary
on burnout, but he did come out
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and say he was just burnout.
He's lost his spark for it, You
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know.
I mean, how many years has he
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been doing it?
16, Yeah.
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Yeah, I hear that.
And now I do have a couple of
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questions on burnout here.
Do you see them?
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Which one do you think you would
like to ask the room?
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We'll do one or two of these
questions, and then we'll get to
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today's clip.
The first question here I think
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makes sense to start with.
OK, What part of the podcasting
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process drains you the most?
And are you still pretending it
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doesn't?
That is, I think the part that
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you're for me, I'll start and I
want everybody to think about it
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again, that question.
And if you're here live in the
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audience, please share in the
chat.
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What's the part of the of
podcasting that drains you the
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most?
And I like the second part of
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the question, Dr. And are you
still pretending it doesn't?
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I might be a little more rare
than a lot of you listening
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because not everybody does a
daily podcast, but for me, it's
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the prep.
The prep drains me and it's hard
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to do for me because I am also
running a business at the same
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time.
So carving out the time during
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the day is challenging for me
because I, I've got clients to
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work with new clients to bring
on bored or and try to find new
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clients.
I mean, there's all sorts of
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stuff going on And sometimes I
put the prep until the hour or
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so before, as Dr. knows very
well, it's draining.
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It does make it more challenging
for me.
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That would be my answer.
And am I still pretending it
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doesn't?
Absolutely.
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I because there I definitely go
through a few times a week that
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oh man, what am I going to do?
And then I get a little stressed
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about it leading up to the 7:00
AM hour.
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So yeah, I mean, I try to
pretend it's not a thing, but
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it's absolutely a thing for me
and one that I would like to try
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to improve upon in 2026.
For me, it would be the notes.
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Now I use AI on my notes.
I do, but like any good AI, What
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do you call us AI users, people,
users, There's got to be a
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special name for us.
Like any good AI user, you need
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to come through a copy of what
it gives you.
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So my philosophy of what I do
with AII always do this.
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I always ask for more than what
I will be using.
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So it gives me a, a good choice
of things to use and I always, I
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always have to find stuff to
throw out.
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So for me, that's especially
because I'm, I have to stop
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editing.
I love editing and I have to
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stop editing in order to do the
notes.
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And that probably is starting.
I'm becoming a little perturbed
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about it.
I get that.
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I'm becoming a little resentful.
That's the word.
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Let's check in with Nick.
Nick, do you want to answer this
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one?
What part of the podcasting
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process drains you the most?
And are you still pretending it
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doesn't?
I was thinking about this a
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little bit differently than you
guys were.
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OK.
I would say the most draining
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part for me of podcasting was
always doing the interviews.
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And I don't mean that in a bad
way.
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I've gone like as I was
scheduling and trying to come up
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with a good interview schedule
for the 95 podcast, there were
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some days that I would do
back-to-back, sometimes 3
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episode interviews, back-to-back
to back and just staying on for
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that long and trying to keep
that high energy.
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I would get done with those
interviews and I would just be
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absolutely drained.
Like I would just be done for
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the rest of the day.
But.
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I still enjoyed it.
That mean a draining part of the
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process once or something like
dripping that part.
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It was just bringing the energy
out of Hewa.
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The lines of pieces of podcast
and for me would have been on
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the marketing side of balancing
how much effort to put in
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episodes that are already behind
you that that marketing effort
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going and getting traction on
the older episodes while also
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trying to make forward progress
on the episodes that you're have
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yet to release or are releasing
currently.
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That to me was always a a
struggle and something like
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that.
I hear that and that first part
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there about getting drained
after doing interviews.
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I totally relate to that.
I mean, really, I know my limit
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and it's one a day and, and
really I don't know that I've
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ever done more than say two or
three in a week, right?
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But after one in one day, I am
pretty drained.
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Maybe drained is actually not
the right word for me.
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I think that I think that it
really gets my adrenaline going
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after I'm done, especially if it
was a really good interview.
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I'm really upbeat and I don't
know if it's the ADHD or just
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human nature, but once that
adrenaline's running, I find
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it's hard for me sometimes to
just go back and focus on my
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regular day-to-day stuff.
I'm too much on a high to get
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myself to refocus sometimes.
So it takes me a while and then
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I think I get drained after
that.
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Then I just, once I let that
adrenaline do its thing and run
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its course, I tend to hit the
wall at that point and feel a
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little bit drained.
So it's hard for me personally
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to do more than one in a day.
So I, but you know, you
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interviewed me and I know that
you did some really extensive
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research when you interviewed
me.
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So I think your extensive
research that you do on the
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people that you interview, it's
like it's stirring the pot, you
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know, then the interview is like
eating the meal and it's like,
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Oh my God, I'm so.
Yeah, yeah.
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I think especially now with AII,
actually don't feel drained
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doing the prep.
I find it fun.
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Maybe that's just because AI is
still relatively new to me in my
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world of even though it's been a
few years now.
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But yeah, I think I enjoy the
prep process and I do usually.
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Unlike what I shared earlier
about prepping for the
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day-to-day show when it's an
interview, I do prep more in
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advance for it.
And so those two things coupled
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together, it doesn't feel
draining to me as much as
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actually once I'm done with the
interview, then I'm just then
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it's just, I think maybe it's
all it all comes at me at once.
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It all kind of settles and I'm
like, OK, now I need to take a
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deep breath and relax.
Anyone else want to share or
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shall we move forward?
Go ahead, Sid.
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Good morning.
Good morning everybody.
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So we had a similar conversation
earlier in the week about this
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and my answer then was editing,
which will always be my thing
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that I hate the most about doing
podcasting, but I don't edit
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anymore.
So that's good thing for me and
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my show and my listeners.
But I will say the thing that's
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really the most frustrating is
the marketing of the show and
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getting the show out there,
getting it discovered, talking
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about it, posting in all the
right places, doing all the
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right things or things.
But just the marketing of it can
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be really frustrating to grow
your reach.
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And there's so many different
places, I mean different things,
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different options, clips, no
clips.
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And so it can get, it can get a
little bit heavy at times in
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trying to put all the stuff out
there.
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Yeah, I think I saw Ashley
agreed.
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I agree as well.
I think that part, yeah.
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And I think that's because,
well, for me, it's because I do
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all the other things for the
podcast and by the time I get to
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the marketing and promotions
stuff, I'm drained.
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It's like, oh man, I just feel
like I got over the hump and now
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I've got another mountain to
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So I relate to that so much.
Sid, thank you for sharing that.
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OK, here's what we're going to
do real quick.
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I do.
Before I play today's clip of
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the day, I'd want to let you
know about Matt Bliss.
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You know Matt Bliss, our one of
our fine Co hosts from, well,
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originally he's from Australia,
now living in Ireland.
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I believe he put out an episode
this week of Rethinking
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Podcasting.
That's his podcast on the
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harmful obsession of podcasting
as a discipline, which kind of
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goes along with a lot of what we
were talking about.
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So I just wanted to encourage
you to go check it out.
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I'll give you a description and
there's maybe a little bias as
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to why I'd like you to check it
out the description says.
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In this episode, Matt gives a
few reflections on how too much
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podcasting specific research can
become a problem when building
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your show.
It doesn't help when podcast
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optimization means your own
unique perspective and content
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takes a back seat to the growth
hacks.
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He talks about Inception Point A
is cheap content system that's a
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company that creates podcasts,
all with AI, including hosts.
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I believe why it took him so
long to make Rethinking
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Podcasting and mentions the
Podcasting Morning Chat where
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our community and our unique
perspectives help us steer clear
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of a lot of the typical hacks
and tactics.
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And I think what he means really
there is that's what he
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appreciates about the podcasting
Morning Chat, is that we all
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share our different opinions and
we don't necessarily share one
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way as the gospel.
We want to give that podcaster
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listening the opportunity to
hear what others are doing and
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find what resonates most with
them and take action on that
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first.
So I think that's what Matt's
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talking about.
So go to
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rethinkingpodcasting.com.
It's episode 14 and as I said,
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it's called the episode's called
on the harmful obsession of
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podcasting as a discipline.
Check that out.
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Let's give him some analytics,
shall we?
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Let's go and press play.
Listen to that show and help
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Rethinking Podcasting with the
their analytics, help them grow.
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Thank you, Matt Bliss, for the
mention and talking about what
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we do here at the Podcasting
Morning Chat.
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All right, we're going to play
our first clip of the morning.
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And this comes from Dare to Care
podcast.
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It's about a year or so old and
we found it on TikTok at Dare to
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self-care Pod.
That is the TikTok handle and I
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believe OK, yeah.
And yeah, this that I was just
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going to tell you about another
clip.
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This is a different clip.
So we'll play this clip.
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She's talking about guesting and
ghosting.
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Why?
You may reach out to guests,
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start the conversation, then all
of a sudden you don't hear from
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them.
Or maybe they just say, sorry
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thanks but no thanks.
I've decided I don't want to be
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on your show.
So let's hear her opinion and
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then I want to hear how you feel
about it.
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And I have some additional
questions after that.
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I've had some major guests come
on my podcast and I'm going to
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let you in on the secret.
If you're struggling to get a
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response from where you're
getting ghosted by potential
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podcast guests, you're probably
asking too much of them.
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I cannot tell you how many times
I've had people ask me to come
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in their podcast and I say yes,
and I'm intrigued and then
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they're like, great, let's get
on a 30 minute call schedule
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that here and we'll talk about
what we're going to talk about
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on the podcast and then schedule
the podcast episode and we'll do
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that for about an hour.
And no, immediately, no ghost in
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sorry, it's not intentional.
I just like I, I literally can't
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keep up with the scheduling.
When you're a small podcast,
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they're doing you a favor.
OK, so here's the trick.
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You're going to want to put
everything in that initial DM or
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e-mail so that when they first
see it and they're first
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intrigued and they're first
interested and you have their
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attention, they can schedule the
recording right there on the
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spot and they're done.
Goes directly on their calendar.
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But a Bing but a boom.
Within 5 seconds, they saw the
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e-mail, they scheduled it, and
it's on their calendar.
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OK so there you go.
That is from Dare to self-care
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pod on TikTok and I see Janae
wants to come up and join us as
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well for a response.
So let's just start with the
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broad question to begin, and
then I'll get more specific with
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some questions for all of you.
And again, if you're listening
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in the audience and by the way,
we got a full house in the
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audience today.
Welcome, everyone.
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Thank you for being here today.
If you want to join the
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conversation, by all means, hit
the raise your hand button here
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on Clubhouse and come up and
join the conversation.
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And if you're feeling a little
shy, which as a podcaster, why
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are you feeling shy to come up
and talk?
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But if you are, go ahead and put
it in the chat as well.
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And I do recognize there are
other reasons why you may not be
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able to join us up here this
morning.
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So I will go to Janae first
since he's joined us.
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Janae, do you agree that small
podcasts often ask too much from
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guests or potential guests
during the booking process?
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And have you ever been guilty of
that?
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Let's hear from you.
I love this topic because this
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is something that I've done in
the past and you know, continue.
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I don't know if I'm continuing
to do it anymore even though I
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have all of the information
providing to the guest that I'm
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inviting.
Hey, this is what I'm about.
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So I used to do the previous
interview calls and then book
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the episode to record and
sometimes they were booked two
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months later.
So you'd really sit down with a
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guest to book them and you tell
them, OK, we're going to do
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this, but it's not until
December.
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Exactly.
OK, exactly.
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And it's kind of crazy because
as the time approaches, guess
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what life happened, How do I
have to cancel?
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Either the guest has to cancel,
then you have to reschedule.
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I'm like, this is very, this is
a lot of toll because there's a
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lot of people waiting.
And so I've got a new idea that
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I'll share later.
I love this, you know, being
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better on what she says.
You know, you book a time, but
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even if your calendar is full,
just what's happening, you're
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still booking two weeks ahead,
which is probably not as bad as
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two months.
It's a big deal.
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And we all know a solution that
helps a lot of these things
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together, like pod match and
aligning with the guests that
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you're looking for and aligning
with the host that you're
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looking to be a guest of.
Thank you, Janae.
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So do you agree with the idea of
not because I I didn't quite
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catch this from you.
Do you agree that maybe it's
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best to skip the pre call the
pre interview because that's
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what she was talking about, she
doesn't like the idea?
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OK, go ahead.
Yes, I agree that to skip the
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pre interview called because
again, if you're inviting
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somebody to your podcast, you
got to be very specific on what
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you want from them so that they
know exactly they're in their
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zone of genius as opposed to
hey, come be a guest on my show.
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What's your podcast about?
It's about this.
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What can I talk about?
You know, so having that DM
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filled in with, Hey, here's what
I want from you based on your
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expertise and they're more
comfortable as supposed to who's
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this random person looking or
looking to take my time and and
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record a podcast with me.
OK.
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Thank you, Janae.
I appreciate that.
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And I know that we've talked
about this even maybe somewhat
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recently, just that idea of do
we or don't we do the pre
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interview and I know I've shared
and I'll just say it quickly,
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I'm not going to go into a whole
spiel about it, but I personally
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prefer to do it.
I like I like building rapport
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with my guests and I like
getting to know them a little
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bit, getting to know getting to
on the same page as them and
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vice versa before we ever hit
record.
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But I do hear what this person
in this clip was sharing that it
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may be annoying to people that
they don't want to keep having
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to sit down with you and they
just want to if they want a one
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and done.
I get that that's the case.
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She does kind of imply or
actually she might even directly
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say this is specific to smaller
podcasts.
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And she did even say something
about guests are doing you a
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favor by coming on your show.
So you have to be courteous of
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that.
And that I don't know if it
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really applies to small
podcasts, big podcasts, or any
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podcast who's off mic somebody's
morning.
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Everybody.
I've been on podcasts where I
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had the pre interview and I've
been on podcasts where I didn't.
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It just depends on what's in the
pre interview.
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I think that's the key if, if
it's a quick, you know, getting
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all the semantics out, seeing if
there's any questions, that
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might be pretty good.
I've also been on podcasts and I
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know I've done this myself.
You know, can you meet like 10
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minutes before or whatever,
minutes before, half hour
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before, just to make sure
everything is checked, you know,
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all your stuff is checked.
And then we kind of do a pre
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interview.
Is there anything?
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So I mean, there's a lot of
different ways you can do it
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when you're booking out, like
Janae is so far in advance.
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Like you said, life happens and
their message might be
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different.
So that's always a good thing to
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have as well.
It's what really works for you,
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don't you think?
It's what you and your Co host
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or slash interviewee.
It's like, what's the perfect
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length of a podcast?
And we're not going to go down
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there.
There is no perfect length.
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I hate to break the news to you.
It's what you like.
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And I think that's the same
thing with this kind of stuff,
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unfortunately.
I was just going to say I I
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always liked the pre interview
just because I framed it as a
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way to basically see if it was a
good fit for the show.
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Like I never came in and was
like, Hey, you're going to be on
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the podcast.
This is what's happening.
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Like let's have a conversation,
see if like your experience and
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what you bring to the table is
going to be a good fit for the
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show because I don't want to
waste your time.
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You want to waste my time.
Like that's kind of how it is.
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So it would always be a quick
10-15 minute get in, get out.
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All right, let's do it.
But when I was hearing Janae
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talk, I, I was thinking this
kind of takes that what I just
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said out of it.
But you could also lock them in
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for the interview and then a
week or two weeks prior to the
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interview, get them on a quick
call to kind of like brief them
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and kind of give them the
rundown on it.
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That way you're not saying, hey,
let's book a quick call.
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OK, now let's book the interview
and like just kind of
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overwhelming them with
scheduling type stuff.
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You, you lock them in for the
interview and then work out the
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details from there.
And if you can't make it happen
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for the pre interview, Oh well,
at least you got them booked for
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the actual interview but you're
not overwhelming them.
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Yeah.
I like that Nick.
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00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,360
I like that a lot because then
yeah, like you're saying, it's
432
00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:23,120
not a lot of overwhelm.
They you've asked them.
433
00:26:23,120 --> 00:26:26,040
I hope that most people at the
very least with whether they're
434
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,640
doing a pre call or not that
they are at least getting some
435
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,600
questions answered from that
guest so that they can get on
436
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:37,240
the same page.
But yeah, basically not telling
437
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,760
them in advance you'd like to do
a pre call, waiting a week or so
438
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,880
before and then saying, hey,
would you be open to getting on
439
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,520
a quick call so we can talk
about the interview beforehand.
440
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,080
I like that idea cuz if they're
free, they'll probably do it
441
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,960
because let's be real, a lot of
guests, not all guests, but a
442
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,440
lot of guests might be feeling a
little nervous about it.
443
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,320
This might help break that ice a
little bit for them.
444
00:26:59,360 --> 00:27:02,160
I like that idea.
And that would also help
445
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:06,000
alleviate the issue where Janae
was talking like you get them on
446
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,840
a call and then they can't do
the interview for two months
447
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,120
afterwards.
Like you've had so many
448
00:27:11,120 --> 00:27:13,520
conversations since then.
Do you even remember that quick
449
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,880
little pre interview that you
did with that person?
450
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,040
Like it?
It kind of brings everyone on
451
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:19,720
the same page.
Absolutely.
452
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,760
And Chris Baker's on stage.
Chris, good morning.
453
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,440
Welcome back.
What did you want to add?
454
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,400
I've never almost never done pre
interviews, although sometimes
455
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,520
maybe there's even a 5 minute
exchange before we start.
456
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:37,640
I will say though, I've you
know, at about 370 shows now, I
457
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,840
have actually just scrapped a
few because they were so bad.
458
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:45,120
One case, the guy just had such
a bad accent that I just said I
459
00:27:45,120 --> 00:27:49,200
was repeatedly asking him what I
do think sometimes, you know, I
460
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,680
wish I would have a pre
conversation just to go over
461
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,840
things because every once in a
while, you know, I'll, I'll get
462
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,640
somebody awesome on the chat on
stream where I said, can you do
463
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,600
something about the dog or the
guy who was a documentary
464
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,960
filmmaker who didn't have enough
sense to turn off his phone when
465
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,160
we were talking.
Every once in a while I just
466
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,560
like to do a pre call just to go
over stuff like that.
467
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,400
That stuff that I thought was
obvious but isn't, you know, put
468
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,320
your dog someplace, turn off
your phone.
469
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,840
But usually there's enough back
and forth an e-mail where where
470
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,080
we end up talking about these
things and, and most cases too,
471
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,360
you know, it's always a question
of, you know, hey, what time
472
00:28:24,360 --> 00:28:25,840
zone are you, what time zone am
I?
473
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,280
You know, that kind of thing.
As I pointed out, an empowered
474
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:34,560
podcasting and the most mind
boggling and the most head
475
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,920
scratching thing for me is I
will have these guests and I've
476
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:43,840
had them with 300,000 Twitter
followers and there is nothing
477
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,000
from them on Twitter.
I mean, I realize they've
478
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,200
already done me a favor by
coming on the show, but I'm just
479
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:52,560
like, can you at least do this
little 15 second favor of
480
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,160
sending out a?
Tweet.
481
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,960
But they don't.
Sometimes it's just laziness.
482
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,760
I send them a link to the tweet.
I mean, you can click on the
483
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,040
tweet and I don't know what to
do.
484
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,760
I I've thought about, you know,
like sending out like a little
485
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,240
workflow sheet, you know, just
like something yes, we, we do
486
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,680
this on stream yard.
We do, you know, this will be
487
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:15,640
audio and video because Suzanne
and Gracia have came on and she
488
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,720
didn't.
Oh, I didn't know we were doing
489
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,200
video.
Well, I would have, you know,
490
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,960
fixed all my makeup.
I was actually waiting to
491
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,120
suggest that I think giving a
checklist to all of our guests
492
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,240
ahead of time can only help us
and, and the things that you
493
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,160
listed, I would absolutely put
those on there, you know, make
494
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:36,480
sure your dogs, small children
and noise making people are out
495
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,920
out of the room, door closed,
etcetera.
496
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,960
And let me go to Yvonne and
thank you again, Chris.
497
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,520
Yvonne, please.
I, I think you wanted to respond
498
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,280
a little bit to that.
And I know you're up here
499
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,920
because you just wanted to share
as well.
500
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,520
So go for it.
Good morning to you.
501
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,040
Good morning.
First of all, I want to talk
502
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,800
about this idea that they're
doing us a favor.
503
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,760
I wrote that down.
I'm glad you want to bring that
504
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:57,280
up.
Go ahead.
505
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,640
Yeah, because it's come up a
couple of times.
506
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,960
And here's the thing, it's it's
an exchange.
507
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:07,120
It's an exchange of favors.
We are doing them a favor by
508
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,880
giving them a platform to come
on our podcast as well.
509
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:16,240
And I I do love doing a pre
interview, but I have to say it
510
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:22,320
depends if I'm trying to get
somebody who I already know that
511
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,800
they have media experience, that
they have been on other
512
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:33,320
podcasts, that they are good at
talking about what they do.
513
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:38,160
I don't need a pre interview if
I feel like I have a really good
514
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:42,640
handle on why I want them on the
show and what I want to talk
515
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,880
about with them.
Don't need the pre interview in
516
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:49,160
that case.
But if it's somebody who has, I
517
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,440
have found out something about
them, I don't know if they have
518
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,440
any experience even coming on
Zoom.
519
00:30:55,760 --> 00:31:00,560
I don't know what their tech
experience is with being able to
520
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,840
get hooked up properly to make
sure they're in a good space.
521
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,840
All the things Chris was talking
about.
522
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:11,400
So in those cases, I think a pre
interview is essential.
523
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,200
I'm with you, Yvonne.
And great points too.
524
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,240
And yeah, let's talk about that
for a second.
525
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,360
The whole idea of doing a favor.
And you know, that wasn't just
526
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,520
Chris's language, like that was
in the clip itself that that
527
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,840
this woman was suggesting that
the guests are all doing us a
528
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,440
favor.
And I agree with you, Yvonne,
529
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,640
that it is an exchange.
And granted, some of these
530
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:37,040
guests might have much larger
followings than we do, but I but
531
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,520
that's they're still they don't
have to come on your podcast,
532
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:41,680
especially if they don't know
you.
533
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,880
Why are they quote UN quote,
doing us a favor?
534
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,800
There's clearly something behind
that, right?
535
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,360
They're joining us because maybe
they want to promote something.
536
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,560
They want to help spread the
message that they are trying to
537
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,400
share.
There's could be a plethora of
538
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,560
reasons.
And I think that we might be
539
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,160
hurting ourselves if we are
looking at the guests as doing
540
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:09,000
us a favor because I think then
we and some people will cower to
541
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,440
the guest.
And, and that doesn't feel like
542
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,040
a natural conversation to me.
I don't like giving the power to
543
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,000
the host.
I don't like giving the power to
544
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,800
the guest.
I like it to be a shared power.
545
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,640
That is the most constructive
conversation.
546
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,360
Yeah.
But it comes down to knowing how
547
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,800
to be a guest and doing the
simple things.
548
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,120
And I think a lot of times, just
like, oh, I'm going to start a
549
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:33,880
podcast.
It can't be that hard.
550
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:38,200
I just press record, which he is
and it isn't, you know, people
551
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,440
learning to everybody wants to
be a guest.
552
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,520
Nobody wants to host a lot of
times because it's just easier.
553
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,080
But because you show up, you do
your thing.
554
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,480
But there is some work.
And to your point, if you send
555
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:54,000
out that pre e-mail to say, you
know, for tech issues and, and
556
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,160
all the other stuff, if you lay
the groundwork early, I mean, I
557
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,160
know I, I don't know who it was
maybe Ashley or somebody else
558
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,160
years ago or months ago or
whatever talked about, you know,
559
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,800
they give out a, they give out a
media packet and they still
560
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,760
don't even, all they have to do
is click and they still don't
561
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:13,080
even forward it to their people.
And people don't read.
562
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,800
Well, that's all another issue.
To your point, Yvonne, Yeah,
563
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:17,960
they don't read, they don't want
to.
564
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,760
They just want to show up, do
their thing and leave.
565
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,920
Well, there is the devil's in
the details.
566
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,280
That's the sad part.
But training guests as part of
567
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,240
being a host?
Thank you, Alex.
568
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,080
I'm going to go to Sid and then
Lindsay, you're on deck.
569
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,120
Thank you for being patient and
waiting here on stage.
570
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,360
We will come to you in a moment.
Sid, what do you want to add to
571
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,960
all this?
Yeah, lots of thoughts about
572
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,320
this topic.
I do agree with what Yvonne said
573
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:46,200
that it's a two way St. we're
doing for them what they're
574
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,240
doing for us.
I do have a pre call with every
575
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,160
one of my guests and you know in
that pre call I try to schedule
576
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,560
the recording and all that.
But you know, the thing that I
577
00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,240
don't want to just kind of
highlight is it's not their
578
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:04,400
show, it's your show.
And I think that we have to
579
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,639
release any preconceived ideas
that we have that our guest is
580
00:34:09,639 --> 00:34:11,679
going to help make our show
successful.
581
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,239
It's our show and it's our
responsibility to market and do
582
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,480
it.
And I think we just have to let
583
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,280
go of, well, they didn't, they
didn't repurpose the content,
584
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,840
they didn't do this, they didn't
do that.
585
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,320
And I just think we have to let
that go because it's not their
586
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,000
show, It's our show, It's your
show.
587
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,960
And it's your responsibility to
do the marketing of it and not
588
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,560
rely on someone else to do it
for you.
589
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,560
So that's a little bit of a
contrarian position, I think,
590
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,040
Mark.
But again, it's your show and
591
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,840
you're responsible for it.
So that's my thoughts on it.
592
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,360
Yeah, I'm with you, Sid.
Thank you for sharing that
593
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,159
perspective.
I think that's, yeah, it's
594
00:34:47,159 --> 00:34:49,679
important.
Let me bring up Renee as well.
595
00:34:49,679 --> 00:34:51,280
Renee, we will come to you in a
moment.
596
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,239
Let's check in with Lindsaya.
Good morning, Lindsaya.
597
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,639
Thanks again for your patience.
What do you want to add to this
598
00:34:56,639 --> 00:34:58,440
whole conversation about that
clip?
599
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,600
Yeah, good morning.
And I love the conversation has
600
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:08,200
LED towards energy exchange too.
And I do believe that each
601
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,040
position I love said that you
said like the sovereignty and
602
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,440
ownership of the of the
podcaster.
603
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:20,680
For me, I think it's important
to have many different pathways,
604
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,520
so many different funnels,
systems, automations set in
605
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:29,800
based on how the guest is coming
in because it is different.
606
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:34,560
Like if you apply to be on the
show, that's a much different
607
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:39,000
scenario than if I am seeking
you out and requesting for you
608
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,880
to join everything from if
you're asking to be on the
609
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,640
podcast and essential to get
covered.
610
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,960
There's also a marketing
agreement that must happen.
611
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,080
You're agreeing to do certain
things.
612
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,800
One of them is something that I
don't really need you to depend
613
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,880
on you reposting.
It's all about the world of
614
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,480
collaboration.
So I'm going to make you a
615
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,840
collaborator on post.
That's different than if I seek
616
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,200
you out because someone who has
a much bigger following, whether
617
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:13,240
we like it or not, they do have
a, they have, they are giving
618
00:36:13,240 --> 00:36:17,480
more in the way of exposure.
So when we think about energetic
619
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,480
exchange, it's the same as if
you pay for advertising.
620
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,280
The bigger the audience, the
bigger the spend.
621
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,560
And so if you have a smaller
audience for your podcast and
622
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,040
your marketing isn't going to
bring a big audience or exposure
623
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:35,600
to them, then they're giving
more generously, which means if
624
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,600
there has to be some energy,
some way in which they're
625
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:44,040
getting something.
Otherwise for me, like, you know
626
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,960
why?
I'll use myself as an example.
627
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,280
And I'm far from a big
influencer.
628
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,840
However, if you invite me onto
your podcast and I want to share
629
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,320
my message, that doesn't
necessarily mean that your
630
00:36:55,320 --> 00:37:00,200
podcast is something that I
would seek out or that your
631
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,840
audience is my ideal target
market.
632
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,600
I may want to practice, I may
want to spread my message and
633
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:10,840
hope to reach more people.
And so there is a reminder that
634
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:15,680
like it for me, it's really how
we the the origination of how
635
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,720
that person is coming onto the
platform.
636
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:21,440
But then that discerns how
they're going to be treated,
637
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,240
what it is that they're going to
be, you know, what they're going
638
00:37:24,240 --> 00:37:26,440
to be asked to do or what's
going to be quote on quote
639
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,200
expected.
And then for me, I think it's
640
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:35,000
all about the position and the
vision of each podcast.
641
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:39,400
If you're the kind of podcast
that you're long for maybe or
642
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,720
you'd like to have more, you
know, front loaded information,
643
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,440
a pre interview can be amazing.
If you're someone that is doing
644
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,400
something more short form or
more off the cuff, you want it
645
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,720
to flow more in that way, I
think the pre interview can
646
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,680
impact that energy.
So I think it's never one or the
647
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,280
other.
And I love that that was said
648
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:03,000
more times than once today that
it really is about what is it
649
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,480
you're trying to bring to life?
And then I do think, you know,
650
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,960
again, having those automated
pathways and understanding the
651
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,480
difference between someone
asking to come on the podcast
652
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,400
versus you ask.
Lindsay, bring in it.
653
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,880
Thank you.
Lindsay, I'm I'm with you.
654
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:26,920
And the one point that sticks
out of, of many is that that
655
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,840
idea of really having a, an
honest conversation with the
656
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:34,160
guest about how you would you
would like them to promote the
657
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:37,320
episode.
You want to ask them, in my
658
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:41,960
opinion, if they're willing and
comfortable to repost or share
659
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,000
the content from the episode
that you're producing and
660
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,840
putting out there.
Talk to them about your
661
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:53,160
expectations and ask them if
they're on board and I find that
662
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:57,640
a pre interview call or if it's
before the the actual interview
663
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,280
minutes before.
But to carve out a little bit of
664
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,320
time to actually look them in
the eye.
665
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,680
If you're doing this, say on
Riverside or in person.
666
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,680
But to be able to look them in
the eye and tell them what your
667
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:13,320
expectations are, tell them the
intentions and ask them are you
668
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,240
cool with this?
Are you comfortable?
669
00:39:15,240 --> 00:39:20,440
Will you do this?
And please share why you may not
670
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,240
want to do this?
I want to hear, I want to
671
00:39:22,240 --> 00:39:26,680
understand because if you have
resistance, my other guests may
672
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:31,560
have resistance and I want to
learn why this isn't working for
673
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,120
you, why you don't want to do
this.
674
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,680
I think having those
conversations and doing them as
675
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,000
opposed to just putting it in an
e-mail, asking them to check a
676
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:43,360
box or sign off that they're
going to do this thing, it's so
677
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:47,880
less personal.
Area 1 donor and So what also
678
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:51,160
comes up for me is that when
you're asking someone to do
679
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:55,840
advertising on your behalf, to
me it is more than a
680
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,960
conversation.
If they have a larger audience
681
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:04,240
than you like, it cost someone
money if they want me to cross
682
00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:06,760
promote anything.
Period.
683
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,640
If I'm not involved in it, it
costs money.
684
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,200
If you want me to put it in my
newsletter.
685
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,120
If you want me to put it on my
social medias.
686
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,800
If you want me to send it out to
my text list.
687
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,560
If you want me to put it into my
Facebook group.
688
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,960
If you want me to add it to my
app.
689
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,560
Like each interface in which I
am going to promote something
690
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:26,040
that isn't directly derived from
my creation, there is a fee
691
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:31,440
unless I unless I have sought it
out and I'm Co collaborating
692
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,880
with somebody.
So someone asking me to be on
693
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,880
their podcast doesn't mean that
you and you get access because
694
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,400
my face is on your podcast to me
promoting it like it's something
695
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:44,160
that I have in my marketing
scheme that's going to fit my
696
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:46,440
messaging, that's going to fit
what I'm promoting.
697
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,760
Even if the message is aligned
with what I share, it may not be
698
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,840
in alignment with all of that
unless I've considered it and
699
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,800
there's an it's advantageous.
And so I think we must consider
700
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,920
that it's more than like
requesting that really is again,
701
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:02,440
like what's in it for them.
If it isn't money, it must be
702
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,440
something that's my my belief.
And so like that.
703
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,920
What could that be?
And I just wanted to add that in
704
00:41:08,240 --> 00:41:09,920
as an example.
Thank you.
705
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,000
And yeah, again, bringing it to
this morning.
706
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,960
Thank you, Lindsay.
And yeah, their reasoning may be
707
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,640
that your content that you want
to put out there isn't on brand
708
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:22,960
with them.
And you might stop now and say,
709
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,440
but Mark, it's them talking, so
it's got to be on brand for
710
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,120
them.
They're sharing their message,
711
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,120
but there could be lots of other
branding issues.
712
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,520
It may not look and feel like
the content that they're working
713
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,280
so hard to create, create of
their own.
714
00:41:38,240 --> 00:41:41,880
It just may not fit well with
what they're doing.
715
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,880
And even adding you as a
collaborator, they may not want
716
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,080
to hit the accept button because
it just doesn't jive with their
717
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:52,160
content.
There are legitimate reasons
718
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,600
that we have to think about.
And especially, like I said, if
719
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:58,120
they're bigger creators that
have taken the time to build up
720
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:02,920
this brand, they don't want to
messy the waters, muddy the
721
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,600
waters.
I'm with you there.
722
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,320
Let's check in with Renee.
Renee, thanks for your patience.
723
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,920
What do you want to add to all
this?
724
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,200
Yeah, I come to this from a
marketing standpoint, having
725
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:18,680
placed myself on podcast or
placing my coworkers or placing
726
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:24,160
my clients on podcast.
So what what I see happening is,
727
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:28,320
you know, I'm judging this whole
thing from the very first e-mail
728
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,640
and what's going on.
You guys talked about that
729
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,320
earlier like what how are you
presenting yourself to me and
730
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,120
are you giving me a little bit
of bullet points on what's going
731
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,840
to happen in this Like first
we're going to do this, then
732
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,480
we're going to do this, then
we're going to do this.
733
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,800
OK, that's wonderful do we get
past that?
734
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,080
But then where I get super
impressed and nobody's done it.
735
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,920
So I'm going to tell you what is
missing because I backtrack and
736
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,200
do this myself.
I go back when we've I've been
737
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,720
on YouTube because I can't, I
know how to optimize YouTube.
738
00:42:58,720 --> 00:43:00,880
I know that platform.
I don't know how to optimize for
739
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,080
podcasts, but assuming it's the
same but for YouTube, I will go
740
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,800
back and I will go tell them to
put all of these things.
741
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,880
I want you to optimize our our
everything from the title.
742
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,200
I'll give them the whole new
title.
743
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,440
I'll give them the keywords,
I'll give them all the
744
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:19,760
descriptions and everything.
And we've gotten ourselves from
745
00:43:20,240 --> 00:43:24,720
from nothingness to like #5 on a
really good podcast because we
746
00:43:24,720 --> 00:43:27,800
went in there and then I went
back and did it again and I
747
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,560
edited it again and they didn't
care.
748
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,160
He just sent it to his team guy
and re edit it.
749
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:33,920
That's our best success story
with that.
750
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:39,440
But what what I want is, I would
love it if you said, what
751
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,840
keywords do you want us to
optimize for?
752
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,560
OK, now I know you're thinking
because you're thinking for me,
753
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,240
you're thinking what's going to
help me get in front of my
754
00:43:48,240 --> 00:43:50,200
audience.
So if you ask me that and make
755
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,640
that optional, optional if you
want us to really drill down
756
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,760
into your niche, what keywords,
what descriptors would you like?
757
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,840
But the other thing, if you want
to impress me, tell me that
758
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:03,680
you're going to be sending me
social squares.
759
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,640
We could, we would call them a
square, but they're not a square
760
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:06,960
anymore.
You know, we're going to have to
761
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:11,440
do a 3 by 4 for Instagram or a
four by 5, but you're going to
762
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:15,480
send me the social art and give
me 5 versions because how hard
763
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,920
is that?
And look at my brand, Have your
764
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,720
artist look at both brands.
Give them something that's going
765
00:44:20,720 --> 00:44:24,360
to look good on their grid or on
their walls and make them the
766
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,600
social square.
Nobody's going to if you do all
767
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:30,080
the work for them and give them,
give them the content bytes,
768
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,880
give them 3 or 4 choices for
what the content should be
769
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,520
underneath.
Now you are sending that say we
770
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,800
will send you all of the that
you can send it to him
771
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,360
beforehand.
Hey, I'm going to be on this
772
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,600
podcast.
Probably they're probably not
773
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,800
going to post that one, but then
after it is, here's everything.
774
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,000
Pack it up, send it to him or
give him a little Google Drive
775
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,080
link.
Here's everything.
776
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:50,800
Pick from it.
They're going to think you're
777
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,120
the best thing and you're going
to be the best experience
778
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,400
podcast because you did the leg
work for them.
779
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,960
And that is only if you want
them to market and do the push
780
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,960
for you.
If you don't want them to market
781
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:04,280
for you, don't do that.
But if you're expecting that and
782
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,280
that still doesn't guarantee
they're going to do it, but if
783
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,880
you've done 80% of it for them
and they like it, they might
784
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:14,520
even come back with a tweak.
Hey, can you fix this something,
785
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,600
something, I don't know, they
want to fix something the colors
786
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,440
off a little bit here or here's
our hex colors.
787
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,160
Can you please make it totally a
brand?
788
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,640
Do it.
I mean, this is all worth it.
789
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:28,040
The amount of time you put into
that to get a push in into their
790
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,360
audience, worth every penny as
far as I'm concerned.
791
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,880
But those are the things that
you can do to to interest me as
792
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,280
a marketer when I see you coming
because I'm going to judge you
793
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,160
from that first e-mail.
I'm sorry, I'm judging.
794
00:45:40,240 --> 00:45:44,480
I'm judging.
Renee, you know what, you
795
00:45:44,720 --> 00:45:47,680
mentioned a lot of the stuff
that I do, but you also said
796
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:49,880
some of the stuff that I might
be stealing from you.
797
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:55,960
So right now we do for each
episode that goes out for my
798
00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:02,480
clients, we do three shorts and
we do three, what I call Q&A's.
799
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:07,840
And that would be a horizontal
and it's the host asking a
800
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,320
question and the guest answering
the question.
801
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,840
It could be two minutes, it
could be 8 minutes, it could be
802
00:46:15,240 --> 00:46:17,720
however long it takes them to
answer that question.
803
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:22,400
So we do three of those.
We do three shorts in the e-mail
804
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:27,920
I also send them, they can do a
copy paste because I send them
805
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,360
like a a little blurb that they
can put in that they could just
806
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,400
do a copy paste or they can use
that as a template.
807
00:46:34,720 --> 00:46:37,600
But I think I'm going to start
sending them some keywords as
808
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,240
well.
I think that's a great idea.
809
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,800
Yeah, I like that too.
I love the collaborative
810
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,720
suggestions, right.
It was to really sit down and
811
00:46:45,720 --> 00:46:50,080
talk with that guest and using
and showing them that you know
812
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,200
what you're talking about and
that you know what may be of
813
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,920
interest to them when you're
having this conversation about
814
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,600
collaborative sharing of your
content.
815
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:01,480
I love that.
Thank you.
816
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,920
Let's see, Sid, I know earlier
you had your hand up.
817
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,280
Did you want to add anything
else?
818
00:47:08,720 --> 00:47:09,840
Yeah, I will.
Thank you, Mark.
819
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:14,360
So one of the things I love
about podcasting is you get to
820
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,200
do it your way.
There are really no rules.
821
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,040
They're not really any
guidelines.
822
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:23,400
You get to do it your way,
whatever type of show you want,
823
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,880
however you want to do.
And everybody's brought up
824
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:29,080
really valid points.
Lindsay and Renee is this
825
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,000
amazing things that I think are
great tips and potentially great
826
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,120
takeaways.
But for me, what I think about
827
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:40,800
is the experience that my guest
is going to have with me.
828
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,080
And it's not just being on my
show.
829
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,560
It's with me in general from the
first time that I reach out to
830
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,400
them till the thank you
afterwards.
831
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,600
And I think about what's the
experience that I'm curating for
832
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:55,720
them so that they want to.
I want them to be in a place
833
00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:58,400
that they've had such a great
experience with me that they
834
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,560
want to do things that they want
to share it, not that they have
835
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,680
to or made them sign.
This is me that they have made
836
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,040
all these assets for them or
made them sign a contract or
837
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:11,000
whatever it is.
None of those are bad, but I
838
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,480
want them to have such an
experience with me that they
839
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,040
want to share my show, that they
want to share that they were on
840
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:17,880
my show, that they're proud of
that fact.
841
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,360
And so that's where I come from
and thinking of starting with
842
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,120
gratitude that they're on my
show and how can I curate an
843
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,960
experience for them that they
want to help me grow my show
844
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,000
because that's what they're
doing.
845
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:31,760
It's helping you grow their
show.
846
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:36,040
So again, nobody's wrong.
Great tips today, but I just
847
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,640
look at it a little bit
differently and trying to curate
848
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:42,920
an experience for my guests that
they want to, they want to
849
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,400
participate and they want to
share.
850
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,840
I agree, Sid.
I think it does all start with
851
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,200
curating that awesome experience
for the guest.
852
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:55,000
And I think if you're good at
what you do, if you're a good
853
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:58,840
interviewer, if you're a good
listener, if you are bringing
854
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:03,760
out the best in that guest, if
you then that they're going to
855
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,880
be more likely more interested
in sharing that experience with
856
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,400
their audience.
I think that they're.
857
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:11,840
Before you go on, yeah, I'm
sorry.
858
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:16,200
Before you go on, so I heard a
guest speak on this guy speak on
859
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,360
Katie Brinkley's podcast about
artificial intelligence, and I
860
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,920
was just blown away.
And he says in the episode, hey,
861
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,480
if you'll send me an e-mail with
this in the subject line, I
862
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,600
promise I'll respond to you.
So I did it and I said, hey, I
863
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:32,160
really enjoyed what you said.
I'd like to talk to you about
864
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:36,120
being a guest of my show.
Here's the link to schedule.
865
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:40,520
Or I didn't even put the link.
And I did put the link and I
866
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,760
know I don't even remember now.
Anyways, I reached out to him
867
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,360
about two weeks later.
He responded.
868
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,720
And so we got something
scheduled and we had a fabulous
869
00:49:48,720 --> 00:49:54,440
call about what he's doing and
AI and all these crazy things.
870
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,840
And then he talked about
scheduling.
871
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:00,680
And I said, well, you're going
to be the one of the first or
872
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,480
second episodes of my new
season, which is not going to
873
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,600
launch until late January.
So let's just delay the
874
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,360
recording until December and
I'll reach out to you in early
875
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December to get you on the
books.
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And he goes, that's great.
And when you were done, can you
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send me the video file?
I'll send it to my team and they
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can do with it.
I said, absolutely happy to do
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that for you.
I'll share a Google folder with
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you and, and listen to him.
I heard what he said, I followed
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his action steps to get a
response.
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I got a response, he had a great
call, and now a stranger is
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going to be a guest of my show.
And I just keep thinking about
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how do I make the experience
with him that his experience
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with me is the best podcast
experience he's ever had?
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I love that.
And yeah, I was thinking about
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that earlier and I forgot about
it, so I'm glad you brought it
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up.
Just that idea of I'm OK with
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it.
If my guest wants to take the
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whole long form recording or
maybe my edited version of the
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recording and break it all down
into clips of their own and use
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them as they wish, I'm OK with
that.
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If it means that they're going
to share the content.
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And as long as they're tagging
or adding me as a collaborator
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to the content that they're
sharing, I'm, I'm, I'm pleased
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as punch as they say.
I'm very happy to do that.
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00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,160
So that's a, it's a great
strategy and a great story too.
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Thank you, Sid, for sharing that
with us.
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I think we're at a spot.
This is a good time to wrap up.
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I would love to remind you to
come back and join us tomorrow
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00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,800
at 7:00 AM Eastern.
We'll be talking more things
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podcasting and of course we're
going to be sharing our wins
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00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,520
from this past week.
And if you want to learn
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00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,200
anything more about the
Podcasting Morning chat in this
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00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,960
awesome community and why we
have such great chats as we do,
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00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:48,760
go visit our website
podpage.com/PMC to learn more
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00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,520
about us.
Until Friday.
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Make it a great day everybody,
take care.





