Oct. 17, 2025

Parental Alienation :Turning Pain into Purpose with Kindra Foley

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Bent Not Broken Podcast: Parental Alienation – Turning Pain into Purpose with Kindra Foley

Episode Summary:

In this deeply emotional and eye-opening episode, host Deborah Griffiths sits down with Kindra Foley — strategic marketing leader, relationship builder, wife, mom, stepmom, and fierce advocate for families impacted by parental alienation. Together, they explore one of the most painful and misunderstood aspects of post-divorce life: what happens when one parent manipulates or severs the bond between a child and the other parent.

Kindra shares her powerful story — from the early signs of alienation and false accusations to the heartbreaking toll on her children and herself. She opens up about her path to advocacy, legislative change, and how she’s rebuilding connection with her kids after years of separation. This conversation is raw, real, and full of hope for anyone navigating the storm of alienation.

💔 Key Topics Covered:

What parental alienation is (and isn’t): Understanding the difference between alienation and estrangement.
Early warning signs: How manipulation, false accusations, and emotional tactics often begin.
The emotional toll: How alienation affects parents and children mentally, physically, and financially.
Legal system challenges: Why courts often misunderstand emotional abuse and how laws are slowly evolving.
The 3 P’s for rebuilding connection: Patience, persistence, and prayer — and why all three are vital.
Setting healthy boundaries: Protecting your mental health while staying open for reconnection.
Turning pain into purpose: How advocacy and education became a healing journey for Kindra.
Resources for parents: Books, support groups, and organizations leading the fight for change.

📚 Resources Mentioned:

National Parents Organization (NPO): https://www.sharedparenting.org. Advocacy, resources, and state-by-state support for parents.
Books by Dr. Amy J. L. Baker: Essential reading on the psychology of parental alienation and strategies for understanding children’s behavior. Amazon link to Amy’s books.
Support Communities: Look for online Facebook groups, Zoom support calls, and local meet-ups for parents navigating alienation.

💡 Takeaways:

Alienation isn’t about a parent “walking away” — it’s often the result of manipulation and systemic challenges.
Healing requires more than legal battles; it demands self-work, education, support, and forgiveness.
Reconnection is possible — but it takes time, resilience, and a willingness to rebuild trust one step at a time.
Advocacy is powerful. Sharing your story can help others and create lasting change in the legal system.

✨ Final Thoughts

As painful as parental alienation is, there is hope. Relationships can heal, laws can change, and children can come back. Kendra’s story reminds us that even in the darkest moments, we can choose to rise, grow, and use our voice to make a difference.

🔗 Connect & Support:

Visit sharedparenting.org for more resources.
Share this episode with anyone who might be struggling — they are not alone.
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