July 30, 2025
The Bounce Back Blueprint with Evancia Baron: Overcoming Setbacks
Send us a text What transforms a devastating personal setback into a springboard for success? Certified life coach Evancia Barron reveals the remarkable journey that earned her the title "The Bounce Back Coach" in this deeply personal and transformative conversation. After experiencing the shock of a broken engagement and sudden unemployment in an unfamiliar city, Evancia discovered the power of resilience through intentional healing. Rather than remaining stuck, she rebuilt her life – secur...
What transforms a devastating personal setback into a springboard for success? Certified life coach Evancia Barron reveals the remarkable journey that earned her the title "The Bounce Back Coach" in this deeply personal and transformative conversation.
After experiencing the shock of a broken engagement and sudden unemployment in an unfamiliar city, Evancia discovered the power of resilience through intentional healing. Rather than remaining stuck, she rebuilt her life – securing a better job, purchasing a condo, building a business, and traveling the world. This personal renaissance became the foundation for her coaching practice, where she now guides others through career transitions and professional challenges.
Throughout our conversation, Evancia unpacks practical wisdom about overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome – challenges she faced even after receiving numerous promotions and awards in her corporate career. "We are our own worst enemy," she acknowledges, offering tangible strategies for silencing negative self-talk through daily affirmations and mindset shifts. Her vulnerable admission that even accomplished professionals struggle with unworthiness provides comfort and perspective for listeners battling similar doubts.
The discussion explores the crucial role of forgiveness in moving forward, the power of authentic self-expression, and the significance of community support in personal transformation. Evancia's story emphasizes that successful comebacks begin with acknowledging where you're stuck and being willing to take action, however small, toward your goals.
Whether you're navigating career uncertainty, recovering from personal disappointment, or simply seeking to silence your inner critic, Evancia's compassionate guidance offers a roadmap for bouncing back with greater confidence and clarity. Visit bouncebackfreegift.com to receive Evancia's free e-book and book a complimentary strategy session to begin your bounce-back journey.
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00:00 - Welcome to Ready Set Collaborate
01:12 - Meet Evansia Barron: The Bounce Back Coach
03:30 - Personal Turning Point: From Heartbreak to Healing
08:00 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
11:20 - Strategies for Silencing Self-Doubt
14:30 - The Power of Sisterhood and Collaboration
17:40 - Creating a Bounce Back Legacy
24:15 - Connect with Evansia and Closing Thoughts
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Welcome.
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Welcome to the Ready Set podcast with Wanda Pearson.
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I am so excited to have another inspiring episode of Ready Set Collaborate with Wanda Pearson, where we bring voices together to ignite purpose, power and partnerships.
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Today, I'm honored to welcome a woman of grace and transformation certified life coach, dynamic speaker and powerful author, evancia Barron.
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She's on a mission to help women break barriers, embrace healing and walk boldly into their God-given destiny.
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I love that.
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So grab your notebook, get inspired and let's dive into this conversation of clarity, confidence and courage.
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So welcome, evansia, to the Ready Set Collaborate podcast.
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So tell us a little bit about yourself that I have not said in your bio.
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Thank you.
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Thank you for having me on your podcast Again.
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I am Ivansia Barron.
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I'm also called the Bounce Back Coach and I started by helping women overcome setbacks in their lives various setbacks from loss, broken relationships, setbacks on the job and various aspects of our lives and I've now transitioned to working with individuals and their professional careers, helping them bounce back from setbacks job stagnation, maybe loss or layoffs and things like that.
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So I help people, I empower them to bounce back from setbacks in the career, to thrive and feel confident in whatever role that they choose and whatever career path that they have.
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So I guide them into making a new plan and hold them accountable to accomplish the steps they need to take to move forward to that career goal that they have chosen.
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I just love it.
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I love seeing people excel.
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I like seeing people create a goal and actually follow it.
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So that's some of the things that I enjoy seeing.
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I love that and I love you said the bounce back coach.
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God, there's so many, so many people that needs that and need that bounce back, coach.
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God, there's so many, so many people that needs that and need that bounce back.
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Because I tell me, being in corporate for 36 years, I was like, okay, what am I going to do now?
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What's next?
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And it's just been a whirlwind, but you are in the perfect place.
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But I love the title bounce back, coach.
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I love it.
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I love it.
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Yeah, thank you.
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Yeah, definitely.
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So tell us a boast truth that you live by.
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That shaped your life journey, something that shaped your life journey.
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Something that shaped my life journey, I would say discovering who you are and being authentic in who you are, because in this world, everyone has their goals, everyone has their dreams and everyone is doing it their own way, and sometimes you may look at others and think that they're having success and you want to do as they do and be like them.
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But I would say, just be who you are, be authentic, because that's what's going to make you happy, that's what's going to make you feel good about yourselves and what you're doing, and so just be who you are and the rest will follow.
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Just stick to your truth.
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I love it.
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That is definitely a bold statement and I really like how you said that is so true.
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As far as what you're doing and you already told us what inspired you to be a certified life coach Was there a personal turning point that got you there, that made you start this all?
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Yes, I was here on 2013,.
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Some time ago, I had never imagined being a life coach.
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I didn't even know what a life coach was at the time.
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But there I was, newly engaged, moving to a new state with my fiance at the time starting a new life, about to get married.
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And the moment I got to the new state, everything was chaotic.
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We broke up.
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Then I was unemployed because I had resigned from my job to move and because I wasn't going to be my husband, so he was going to take care of everything and everything.
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My world turned upside down and I felt like I had nothing.
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I was in a dark place and, after going through the grief of the relationship, the heartbreak and everything, I was able to get out of that by doing research, reading, joining groups, partnering with others and uncovering other life coaches and doing therapy.
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And so once I was able to bounce back from that and that was a short period of time I decided what I need to share about what I went through with others who've experienced that, because before that situation I didn't know anyone very close to me who had experienced that to even reach out to them to say, okay, what do you do in this situation.
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So when I bounced back from that, I bought myself a condo right away.
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I got a better paying job, got a new condo, started living, got a bit up in a business, started traveling the world.
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I started doing all the things that I wanted to do, and it wasn't because of somebody else who told me what to do.
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It was because I decided it was my turn.
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I needed to bounce back, I needed to live for me, and so that's one of the reasons why I became a life coach to help others uncover what it is that they want to do and to get them out of that dark situation and bounce back to what they truly want to do in life.
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So that's where it all started from that broken relationship, feeling like there is no hope for me, to feeling like the world is wide open.
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Yeah, I love that story because I had a friend same thing.
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And God just wait for you to take that next step.
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And probably when you broke up with your fiance, he just actually gave you your blessing and say, okay, now you're ready to succeed Right now.
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So, yeah, so it's all God.
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But a girlfriend of mine told me the same like what you went through, but with a husband for many years.
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And when she finally said, okay, I give up.
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And when she gave up, that's when her blessings start coming.
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And I love how you do that and how you're sharing that with others.
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So you've helped so many women shift their mindset and find healing.
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So what's the first step towards?
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Whenever they feel stuck, what's the first step they should take?
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That's a good question, because people are stuck and sometimes they don't even realize that they're stuck.
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But the first step really is first you have to identify that you're stuck.
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There's something has to be triggered for you to realize.
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You know what.
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I'm in a place that I don't want to be.
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I am not happy, I am stagnant.
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I need to move forward.
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So once you decide for yourself, you know what I need to make a move.
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I need to find that place for me.
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I need to find myself again.
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That's when you can start moving forward.
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That's the first step, because you have to identify and be willing to move forward.
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Because if you can't move forward, it's not going to work.
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No matter what you do, no matter how much people try to pour into you, if you haven't decided for yourself, it's not going to work.
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So you have to uncover that for yourself.
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And that is so true.
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I really liked that because my book that I'm writing is coming out Forgiveness Walking the Freedom Through God's Grace.
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I said you got to forgive yourself first, so don't think it's them, but you have to forgive yourself first.
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And I love it because they have to acknowledge that they actually have to do it.
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So many people can tell you what to do, but it's got gotta be you to take that first step.
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And that's when you come back with that bounce back coach.
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Exactly, I love it.
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I love it.
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So when I was thinking back to that relationship, when I went through all that I went through, I had to forgive him because I was so angry and hurt, so betrayed.
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But I had to forgive him because I wasn't able to let go of that, of that emotion.
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So unless I let go and forgive, I wasn't able to move forward.
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Like you said, that forgiveness piece is so important.
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You have to let go so that you can move forward, because it's like a weight is just holding you down.
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That forgiveness is just cost so much.
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You have to let it go.
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You have to forgive so you can move forward yes, and I love it and you actually got in the perfect coaching phase as far as to help people, because your own journey is being busy, because people say what do you know about what I'm going through?
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I know, I've been there yeah, I've been there and then they start listening to you.
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That's why me doing the mentoring that I do with the middle school girls and mentoring even adults and coaching when you've been there, you have that experience with that.
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So do you have any stories about how working with others has reinforced your confidence and diminished that self-doubt?
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Yes, yes, I would say even for me as a speaker.
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Growing up I was very soft-spoken.
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Some people would say I was very shy.
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No one would expect me to be on a stage speaking to people.
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I'm very good at one-on-one, but not really with a lot of people on stage.
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And so, going through that experience and deciding that what I want to share with others, I was able to partner with other people, reach out.
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I got accountability partners.
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I joined groups, support groups and things of that nature to help to develop myself as a speaker.
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It didn't happen overnight and it wasn't like a snap of a finger, but I was able to partner with others and be invited to speak in other people's events.
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We created a group and we spoke every week to other people, going through different setbacks and just partnering with others and sharing their story and how I was able to overcome to help others overcome.
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That got me to build my confidence.
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It built myself as a speaker and I would not have been able to get here without their help.
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We helped each other because we created this group together and consistently.
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Every week people expected us to be on the platform and we were there just sharing and speaking to others about different, various setbacks based on each coach's area of expertise.
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Those moments were some of the best moments that really got me to where I am and to be confident and just to be able to share my experiences for others.
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I love it and I always say collaboration is the key to success.
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So you collaborating with others, and then what I went through, I think we can be some good collaboration partners as far as doing a seminar together, right, as far as doing things, because it's similar situations that we've been in, but we want to help women and men to be able to get over that unforgiveness that we have in our heart, to be able to start fresh and get your life together.
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So who influenced you to become a life coach?
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I would say other coaches influenced me to be a life coach.
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Just seeing their impact, even for me experiencing on the being on the other side, being a client, and how that has changed my life, the experience that I received made me decide you know what I want to do that for others too.
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So just going through what you're going through in life and knowing what I need to find a way out of it.
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And once you find that way out, you want to go back and do the same for others.
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It's like passing on the baton you got the help, then you pass it on to somebody else.
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And I would just say other coaches.
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I've had the various coaches.
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Even now I have a few coaches that I work with.
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Who guides me, who give me the guidance I need in the area that I'm not an expert in.
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Yet In your areas of my business, areas of my life, also have a life and business coach, because every coach also needs a coach, and so that's an important thing that people need to understand.
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It's like doctors.
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Doctors have doctors too, because they are giving advice, but they're not looking at themselves.
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They also need someone to give them advice as well absolutely yeah, we have expertise in different areas, taking advice and the same with you.
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I have several coaches and you got to be able to take criticism.
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So my coach called me yesterday.
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She wants me to do a seminar and she said, why not?
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I told you you listen to everybody else, but you're not listening to me.
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I'm like, okay, so yeah, so she actually probably met her, angie Sims.
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She was at this event.
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Yeah, she's my.
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I've been with her since the beginning when I left corporate and she's great.
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But yeah, I have to.
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I have homework assignment for me to do for her.
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So, yeah, you're right, you have a coach, another coach to help you move along the way.
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So no, thank you for that answer here.
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So how has working with others influenced your ability to tackle imposter syndrome and recognize your true worth?
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Oh, that's so good, like that imposter syndrome.
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Oh my goodness, even going through my career, working, building myself up from and going from promotion to promotion in short periods of time, when I got to where, because my goal was always to be in leadership.
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And so when I got to leadership, I really second guessed.
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I said, oh my gosh, I think they made a mistake.
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How did I get here?
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And I doubted my worth, I doubted why I was there.
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And all the work I've done.
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I've gotten recognitions, I've gotten awards, I've gotten everyone looking up to me, I've gotten other associates telling me show me how to do this.
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But here I was, still with the position and saying, oh, maybe there was a mistake.
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And it's such a big thing that you don't realize how much imposter syndrome on you.
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Even I have my book 30 Days of Bouncing Back, coming setbacks from challenges, and that's one of the things that I wrote about.
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Even Michelle Obama shared in her book how she experienced imposter syndrome.
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The first lady at the time, I would say just understanding, knowing what it is and acknowledging it and knowing how to change your mindset, because that's also part of negative self-talk.
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Change your thinking, change your thought.
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That's going to help you overcome imposter syndrome because it is a real thing.
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Like you'll be surprised, so many people experience imposter syndrome.
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I'm no exception.
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I'll tell you I laugh because I've been at the 36 years IBM getting into the leadership role, being a team leader, going to Rio de Janeiro, being on the stage teaching our counterparts about our process and I was like, oh my God, how did I get here?
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But you're right Promotions, awards and all of that.
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So I can relate to everything that you're saying that self-doubt can actually ruin your career.
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You got to have confidence, right, so having that confidence is so important.
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So let's talk about your book.
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Let's say, as an author, what message do you hope your readers walk away with?
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Oh, the biggest message that I hope my readers walk away with is keep moving forward, whatever it is that you're going through and in my book it's 30 different topics.
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I talk about the 30 different setbacks that we face and in all of those setbacks, the main goal is to be able to move forward, to be able to move past that setback.
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Yes, it hurts, yes, you feel left behind.
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Yes, you feel doubted, yes, you experience a loss.
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All those things they happen and we're not diminishing the effect of those things.
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But what I want to say to you is find a way to move forward, because you can't stay where you are.
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Don't stay where you are.
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You have to find, whether it's small steps, but find a way to move forward.
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Partner with someone.
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Maybe.
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Reach out to a family or a friend, a mentor, a coach, one.
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Maybe reach out to a family or a friend, a mentor, a coach, anyone, someone in your church group, whatever it is.
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Find someone to help you, to guide you, to move forward, because you don't want to stay there, you don't want to stay stuck.
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That's the key thing.
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The biggest message is don't stay where you are.
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Keep moving forward, baby steps, to find a way forward to your goals, moving forward baby steps to find a way forward to your goals.
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I love it.
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I love it and I want you to tell me what are three key.
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What are three key things that every woman should know about reclaiming her power?
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Ooh, when you get to the other side.
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I remember for me when, when I went through that heartbreak and I felt like my life was over Once I was able to pick up the pieces and bounce back and got to the other side, it's like there's a feeling that you just can't I can't express.
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You feel like you gain confidence back, you feel like you can accomplish anything, you feel like you are so powerful that you can do whatever you put your mind to.
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You start writing down your goals and you start accomplishing those goals and you're going to feel, you're going to feel so empowered, so accomplished.
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So it's so much that happens when you go on the other side.
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It's just an amazing experience and confidence is a big one.
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Confidence and just feeling that you, you know you are the best.
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You've reached where you want to go.
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I just can't explain it too much, but confidence is one of the biggest ones.
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Yeah, that is definitely a big one there, because you got to have confidence and self-esteem.
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Yes.
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Self-esteem has got to be one.
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To make sure, I always tell people don't let anybody take away your joy, don't let anybody take away your and that's your freedom that you actually giving away to someone else.
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Yes, yeah, no, definitely no, that's great.
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So how do you incorporate faith and spirituality into your coaching and speaking?
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Faith and spirituality is part of me, and the way I carry myself speaks volumes.
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I'm a Christian, and so that definitely transitions into my speaking and my coaching, and so whatever I share, it comes from a good place.
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I study my.
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I studied a word, and when I guide others, I'm not guiding them into a place that's going to take them away from.
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It's all going to be tied into who I am as a Christian, and so I think it naturally just evolves.
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It naturally evolves the message naturally evolves.
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Yeah, exactly, exactly.
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It's how you're in it.
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The same with me.
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It just comes out because I am spiritual and I know God is this and God gets us to where we are.
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He got you to bounce back from where you were and gave you those blessings to bounce back to be more successful Right things to bounce back to be more successful right.
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So it's just helping other women, not letting that self-doubt get in the way of what they're going to.
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So many women battle with self-doubt.
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What's your favorite strategy to help them silence that inner critic?
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Because that is an inner critic, right?
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It is.
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I call it negative self-talk because we are our own worst enemy.
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I know we get it all the time, but it's the truth, because we have our own worst enemy.
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I know we hear it all the time, but it's the truth, because we have our own thoughts, but we are living in our head.
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So negative thoughts in our head, like you can shut it off.
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It's there, you can get rid of it, you can walk away from it.
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No matter where you go, it's going to follow you because it is you.
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I say it lives rent-free and so it's just really acknowledging what the thoughts are there.
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But keep pouring into yourself those positive affirmations.
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You have to keep pouring into yourself to balance that negative thoughts that you have.
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Look at a mirror and say whatever you want to say positive things to yourself.
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Everyone has their own affirmations.
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Whatever life you want to speak into yourself, just look in the mirror and speak it to yourself.
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And so that's what I would say to anyone Just keep pouring the positive into yourself, because only you can do it.
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Absolutely.
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And it's funny because that's what I do.
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I actually do affirmations, I write affirmations, but also with the middle school girls, I'm actually the affirmation Before they walk out the door.
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