Making Sense of Domestic Violence with Lindsay Abernathy - Episode 95
Welcome to today's episode of Making Sense of Domestic Abuse. In the United States alone, over 10 million people experience domestic violence each year. These are not just statistics—they are real stories of pain, resilience, and, ultimately, hope.
Today, we're joined by someone who has lived through the darkness and emerged with a mission to shine a light for others. Lindsay Abernathy is a mother of four, an accomplished actress, and the host of the podcast Bitch Is A Bad Word: A Domestic Abuse Survivors Guide. Through candid conversations and expert insights, Lindsay empowers survivors to recognize abuse, reclaim their voices, and rebuild their lives.
Lindsay Abernathy's journey is one of transformation. Known for her roles in productions like Fast Five, The Walking Dead, and Avengers Assemble! Lindsay's on-screen presence was a mask for her battle off-screen. As a survivor of domestic violence and abuse, she turned her mess into her message. As an advocate she has created a platform where survivors can find solidarity and strength. Her podcast, Bitch Is A Bad Word, is a testament to her commitment to breaking the silence and stigma surrounding domestic violence.
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Domestic Abuse Hotline: 24 hour/day - 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)
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Highlights
3:25 - How did you get on The Walking Dead?
5:37 - What type of woman does the narcissist target?
9:15 - What can I teach my daughter to prevent this?
13:36 - It starts out non-violent, and then it happens
15:45 - Is it getting worse every year?
17:11 - Abuse is a slow burn. “They don’t hit you in the face on the first date.”
19:06 - This is a two-way addiction to dopamine hits.
23:47 - Is Abuse commonly connected with substance abuse and cheating?
24:44 - The planning of your exit strategy
29:07 - You need to take a long time away with no contact.
31:29 - 50% of a healthy life for your kids is better than zero
33:24 - How do you know you are being abused and must get out?
39:13 - The Night that I decided to leave.
41:34 - The Average Woman leaves 7 times before she leaves for good.
45:09 - Does the abuser actually kow how bad whatv they are doing is?
48:16 - One Safe Place Foundation
50:12 - What is the Mission of Bitch is a Bad Word?
