F_ck Fitting In - The end of Approval Seeking - Episode 130
Most people are living from an internal A.I., an Artificial Identity built to earn approval, fit in, and stay safe. In this episode, Dr. JC Doornick breaks down how approval-seeking hijacks authenticity, and how awareness, curiosity, and courage can shut down the program and bring you back home to yourself. Make Sense?
F*ck Fitting In is a deep dive into one of the most invisible forces shaping our lives: approval-seeking. In this episode, Dr. JC Doornick exposes how most of us unknowingly construct an internal A.I., an Artificial Identity, a learned algorithm designed to gain acceptance, avoid conflict, and perform appropriately. Over time, this identity edits our words, tones, decisions, and even our sense of self, until we forget where the real us ends and the performance begins.
Through sharp insight, cultural critique, and the lens of the Interface Response System (IRS), this conversation reveals how approval becomes a silent operating system that keeps us rehearsing the future, regretting the past, and missing the only place authenticity exists: the present moment. You’ll learn how awareness cracks the code, how curiosity (“Hmmm?”) creates cognitive distance, and how authenticity returns when the mask powers down.
This episode is a call to stop auditioning for life, stop being manipulable by algorithms, social or internal, and reclaim the courage to live from truth instead of approval. Because when you stop fitting in, you don’t lose yourself… You finally get yourself back.
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0:00 - Intro
1:34 - Fuck Fitting In - AI - Artificial Identity
7:37 - Question from Thomas - Embracing Authenticity is Attractive
9:34 - Approval Seeking
10:57 - What else might be true?
14:19 - How do we execute on being authentic?
19:26 - The Sorting Filter
22:44 - Habits are hard to break. Both Good and Bad
27:18 - Are you Manipulatable?
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